We are more like the humongous, statuesque redwood tree of Northern California, hundreds of feet tall, seeming as though separate from the surrounding trees. For centuries, these giant trees have withstood harsh elements because their shallow, but secure and intertwining root system has held each tree up. This same system also allows the sharing of nutrients.
That’s a kind and robust support system that stands up to everything throughout time, an invisible network. This is the type of connection between everyone and everything that Sally missed during her life, but which became so clear in her afterlife.
What if Sally felt this type of connection and had lived her life with more compassion? Maybe she would have had more loving and fulfilling relationships. Perhaps she would have suffered less regret for the way she lived her life.
Only in her afterlife does Sally realize that no one is separate; quite the opposite. And it’s in her afterlife that she sees that her independence was actually a hindrance to connecting with others.
I personally resonate with Sally’s independence and don’t want to wait until I’m in the afterlife to figure out that I could have connected more with others during my life. Please help me out by sharing in the comments section below the different ways that you connect with others in your life.